10x Your Team with Cam & Otis

"If You Don't Prepare, You Create Your Own Crisis" - Cam & Otis | 10x Your Team Ep. #431

Episode 431

Have you ever noticed how some people always seem to be in crisis mode, while others handle the same situations with ease? In this impromptu family episode (complete with the authentic soundtrack of roofers overhead), Cam and Otis dive into what might be behind this difference.

"If that 10-year-old had been told every day for his entire life that he sucks, he could never have that belief to go do something beyond what he should be able to do," Otis reflects, as they explore how our past shapes our response to challenges.

From missed flights to Medal of Honor winners, father and son unpack the concept of locus of control—that invisible force determining whether you see yourself as the driver of your life or just a passenger along for the ride. Plus, they share practical wisdom about how preparation eliminates most of the "emergencies" we create for ourselves.

Whether you're dealing with your crisis patterns or trying to understand why some team members thrive under pressure while others crumble, this conversation offers both psychological insight and practical tips for building resilience. And yes, we kept the roof thumping in because real conversations happen in imperfect settings.


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Chapter Times and Titles:

The Impromptu Episode (With Bonus Roof Work) [00:00 - 01:45]
Introduction and explanation of background noise
"That's how you know it's real."
Setting up the family episode format

Internal vs. External Locus of Control [01:46 - 23:15]
Defining the psychological concept
How it affects our response to challenges
"If you feel like you are in control of things, you're going to take action."

The 10-Year-Old's Perspective [23:16 - 27:26]
How childhood messaging shapes our belief in our abilities
Connection to extraordinary actions in crisis
The Medal of Honor winner comparison

Creating Your Own Emergencies [27:27 - 35:00]
The missed flight example
"It's an undue crisis."
How preparation eliminates most "emergencies"

Building Buffer Time [35:01 - 45:00]
Practical strategies for avoiding crisis
"I've got an extra buffer in time"
The procrastination trap

Lessons Learned and Closing Thoughts [45:01 - End]
Key takeaways about preparation and control
How to apply these concepts in leadership
Standard outro and wrap-up


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